me in closet, the sequel:
come on we are talking about closets how about u do it
me in closet:
just do it
come out of the closet
do it nerd
ok listen it’s really nifty that “say your name and pronouns” is getting to be a thing in queer spaces but. lets talk about the etiquette for that if u are cis because i think maybe we should lay it bare, just so we’re all on the same page.
inappropriate things to say when asked for your pronouns
- "i don’t care about pronouns/you can call me whatever"*
- "call me whatever you think i am"
- [pronoun joke]
- "i’m a guy/lady"
- [anything about being cis]
appropriate things to say when asked for your pronouns
- your goddamn pronouns
*trans+ folks with no pronoun preference exist and u are beautiful twinkling diamonds shine on, friend, shine on
One time Katelynna and I had a really long talk about what would happen if Garak and Bashir wound up stranded on a planet with a newborn baby for like a year.
They forgot to give it pronouns (other than ‘it’) or a name.